Preparing for Divorce

Whether you are starting to think about divorce or have already made the decision, it is important to prepare yourself.

• Get organized - start gathering financial paperwork. This includes anything you make, spend, and owe. Make a rough lists of any assets that you own.

• Hire a professional - research attorneys in your area and choose an attorney who seems most suited for your needs. It doesn’t hurt to make a few calls.

• Take an active role in the divorce process - the more prepared you are, the better. Consider whether you and your spouse can resolve any divorce-related issues before you start the process, this can save you financially in the long run.

• Treat divorce negotiations like business transactions - this includes learning to lower your emotional reactivity. Easier said than done, but imperative for a smooth transition.

• Find your support team - having emotional support throughout the divorce process can be crucial for your mental health. Find your people.

• Focus on your future and make personal goals for yourself.

For more information and guidance on divorces, contact Langley Law today!